This week, an important perspective to consider in order to keep your mental health high, in these times when people will flake out on you at the drop of a text:
No-one is really EVER “too busy” for you.
If it’s truly important to them – THEY WILL FIND A WAY.
The truth of the matter is:
Something or someone else is more important. So, it’s being prioritised. Over you.
We say “it’s complicated” but… it’s not.
We excuse it under “he/she has got a lot on”
But the truth is that they care about something else MORE.
It’s literally that simple.
Please stop torturing yourself and making excuses for why that date / old friend / colleague keeps flaking on you.
They are just not that bothered is all.
Go pour your beautiful energy where it’s needed, valued and appreciated.